“If I were born again, I would do exactly the same thing.” Fidel Castro
There are moments in life when you pause, take a deep breath, and look back — not with regret or nostalgia, but with deep, undiluted gratitude. Today is one of those days for me. As I sit down to write this, my heart is full. Not because everything has been perfect, but because everything has been real, enriching, and oh-so-beautiful. So here it is — a tribute to this life I’ve been lucky enough to live. And the top 10 reasons why I feel like the universe has been incredibly kind to me.
1. Born to Fly – The Defence Life
Everybody says it & means it, I need to also. The very best Parents, Parenting & the sibling you want. The best from the word go, my life has been anything but ordinary. Born into a defence background, I was practically raised on discipline, adventure, and exposure. Every couple of years meant a new city, new friends, new schools — and that meant building confidence early, learning to adapt, and discovering modern ways of living before most even stepped out of their hometowns. I didn’t just grow up. I evolved. And I owe that to the rich, diverse canvas that only a defence upbringing can paint. I grew up with parade grounds, marching bands, Naval Sips, Submarines, Shooting, Sports, Sailing, Dancing, Parties, Defence Mess & Institute, with travel to school the Kendriya Vidayalya every morning. Being born into a defence family wasn’t just a part of my identity — it’s shaped my soul & brought me my soul mate.
2. International Exposure – Lessons Beyond Borders
Imagining Jesus Christ was born in India 😉 by the time most kids were figuring out their college plans, I had already soaked in cultures from around the world. Studying internationally at a young age taught me more than just textbooks ever could. Independence wasn’t a concept — it was my reality. From languages to cuisines, customs to connections, my soul has been seasoned with global flavors. The world wasn’t just a map. It was my classroom. Sri Lanka at the time was the best thing that could happen to a young boy!! Having till besides India, now stayed in Sri Lanka, Mexico & Nigeria
3. Brain & Brilliance – The Academic Journey
Three professional degrees, including a gold medal in one — my academic life has been a beautiful blend of hard work and heart. An engineering degree laid the foundation, a diploma in marketing management added perspective, and a PG in International Business opened up the global arena. Learning has never stopped — and that’s been my superpower. Now I get to teach & mentor when I get the chance….
4. The Glamour of Gears – Automobile Industry
“Look out of the window — you’ll either see a human or a machine.” That’s the sheer impact of the industry I’m proud to be part of. From roaring engines to sleek designs, every day in this world feels like you’re part of something dynamic, beautiful, and constantly evolving. I didn’t just choose a career. I chose passion on wheels. Petrol, Diesel, Electric…..Domestic & International….Motorcycles, Scooters, Tricycles, Cars, Buses, Trucks, Tractors……Indian & Multi National…..Established & Startups…..OEM & @ Distributor
5. Love, Actually – Marrying My Best Friend
They say you’re lucky if you fall in love once. I say I hit the jackpot. I married the only person whom I ever truly loved — my best friend, maybe my only friend ever. Now 25 years later you think of this girl with pony tails with whom not only have grown up together…you have negotiated teh turns & curves of life together!! The kind of love that doesn’t just spark but grounds you, relizing there is someone who is there to take care of you. We’ve seen highs, lows, chaos, and calm — and through it all, our bond has been unshakable. Life is richer, deeper, and infinitely more beautiful with her by my side.
6. My Little Universe – The Kids
Then came the most delightful chapter — our kids. ‘Maa Roti la’. I don’t say this lightly: they are the most respectful, energetic, sincere, and incredibly loving souls I know. Watching them grow is like reading a book you can’t put down. They’ve not just changed our lives — they’ve completed it. Their hugs, their laughter, their questions — they are the rhythm of our hearts. They are apening so fast…I pray for their hapiness, success, & all the comforts in life.
7. A Passport Full of Stories – The Most Travelled
I’ve been to places people dream of. Mountains, oceans, cities, deserts, you name it. From solo trips to family getaways, from work travels to spontaneous escapes — I’ve collected stamps and stories in equal measure. In my circle, nobody’s travelled as much — and that’s not a flex, it’s a blessing. Travel didn’t just show me places. It showed me myself.
8. The Great Mexican Fiesta – Life as an Expat
Three unforgettable years in Mexico City — with my family! Imagine living where every day feels like a carnival, every meal is a celebration, and every moment is a new story. From tacos to tequila, from ancient ruins to vibrant culture — it was more than a stint. It was a long, joyful, enlightening holiday with a salary. And it changed us forever.
9. Mind Over Matter – 28 Kilos Down! which is just a number
The Infinite game — shedding that kind of weight wasn’t just about looking better — it was about feeling unstoppable. It’s a physical victory, sure. But more than that, it’s a testament to discipline, perseverance, and believing in yourself when it’s the hardest. Every drop of sweat was worth it — for the energy, the confidence, and the health I reclaimed.
10. Money Matters – Building My Freedom
Now, as I look to the future, I’m laying the bricks for something equally important — financial independence. I’m not just earning anymore. I’m planning, investing, securing. The goal? A respectable corpus that lets me live with dignity, freedom, and options. Because freedom isn’t just a feeling — it’s also a number. And I’m getting there.
And So…
If my life were a movie, it would be part adventure, part romance, part drama — and all heart. I’m not claiming perfection. But I do claim joy, richness, gratitude, and a zest that’s never stopped burning.
To everyone reading this: cherish your journey. Celebrate your milestones. And when in doubt, pause and look back — you might just find that your life has been more beautiful than you realized.
Because mine certainly has.….& it continues….such has been my life….
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